I started putting in a Lazarus bug report but realised what I am saying probably needs some confirmation from other users. Its pretty harsh I am afraid.
Lets face it folks, everyone here hates Wayland, we choose to use Desktops that do not use Wayland but that is not the real world. Right now, my tests indicate that
Lazarus Main is not usable with Gnome. But Gnome is the default offering on Fedora, Ubuntu, Debian and Suse. The big four distro. Gnome is the largest user group in Linux world (1)
The main, "Project window", the one with the main menu and tool bars, is either difficult to resize or impossible. Forget about where it pops up, it cannot be used !
Using gtk3, the Proj Window will pop up with neither the width or height set to show all necessary controls. Its not possible to stretch it either to the right or down. Tested on Debian bookworm and Trixie, Ubuntu U2604 and Fedora 44 all Gnome.
Using qt5, it is better on U2604, the Proj Windows pops up in the center of screen but can be move to where it should be. But if you try to adjust its width, its 'top' position changes, often off screen. But on Fedora 44 its as above.
I fully understand that this is wayland at work (its fine on my Mate Desktop) but users, especially new, inexperienced users are being directed to use Gnome/Wayland, we cannot ignore that fact. It will not go away.
Please, if you are a Gnome user, pull down main and test it. If you don't use Gnome (very sensible) please consider bringing up a VM to test it.
My system may be the problem, there is already a gtk3 bug that apparently no one else can replicate (?). But these tests, on standard installs on a VMs should be system independent. I think.
Please don't say "it works OK on Mate|XFC|Cinnamon\etc" - it must work on Gnome !
(1) eg
https://commandlinux.com/statistics/linux-desktop-environments/Davo