There has to be another reason, because I can insert RichMemo in every other project I have and it is always the same behavior. (I use Lazarus 4.0, Win 11 / 64).
I suppose it is a version problem.
I have richmemopackage 1.0 (LCL 4.0.0.4, FCL 1.0.1), richmemo_design 0.0 (richmemopackage 1.0, IDEInf 1.0, FCL 1.0.1).