Sounds too steady state for my needs - or I'm not getting what you're doing.
Simple, pick up a beer bottle, put it down a meter further. Wine bottle works too, as do jars for vegetables and pickled stuff. I tried an olive oil bottle (here they are typically square) once, and while it could lift it, but was an edge case. It would require punched out the side of the machine, and a better solution for counter weights. Luckily none of our customers has pressurised bottles (like champagne) since those are even heavier. 3 axis (clench, lift and move) using spiral spindles.
It is professional in 24x7 use, but basically a scaled out hobby/maker design and components, like all our electronics. CPU wise, our main workhorse is the micrcohip dspic33<flash kb>MU/MC8xx series.
But since we have our own pick-n-place we are less bound by what is available.
I'm interested in the R4 for some ARM experience, and having SPI and CAN (peripherals that we use a lot) is a pre. The SPI we use to connect to W5500, which is on said ethernet shield