Joanna, I see two things you are unhappy about. Maybe, if I describe them, in my words, it will help us focus on the real issues ?
If you don't like it, please advise me and I will remove the content from the post, OK ?
Social ContentIt depends upon your definition of socialize.
Most people here, I believe, think the forum is intended to be about FPC, Lazarus, Pascal and so on. On the other hand, this is some chatter about related and sometimes, even un-related matters. And, again, IMHO, most people think thats OK at the current level. But if the "out of scope" content starts to dilute the Pascal content, yet again IMHO, people would be unhappy.
Now, you would like to introduce more social content. OK, thats a change, if you want to change something, you need to take people with you, computer programming people are logical and probably more flexible than most. They would listen to reasoned, logical arguments. But remember, their reason to be here is Pascal, any proposal you put up must relate, some how to Pascal.
My guess is that if the overall opinion of active members was a Social Board, the admins and moderators might cooperate, some might decide its time they move on too !
It should NOT be my responsibility to offer a place to socialize.
Sorry but you are wrong there. You are, I suspect, the only person who wants to see a significent change, you want change, you must lead the campaign to deliver that change.
TrollsIs a totally different matter. If you or anyone else here is being bullied, then its a collective problem and most here would agree it should not happen.
But you must admit, you seem to be far better than anyone else at spotting a troll. And, sometimes, not everyone agrees with your assessment. I suggest you might, sometimes, "call wolf" just a bit too easily. Please allow me to suggest that next time, you be just a bit subtle initially ? Perhaps saying "those words make me uncomfortable" and you see if anyone else chimes in. Again, its leadership, being in front but not so far in front that you are out of touch !
Most certainly, ask for help if you need it !
And finally...Also most people are unaware of my existence. I’m not an fpc developer so I have no clout. That is a reason why my requests for help are ignored.
Wrong, wrong and wrong. I'm not a FPC dev either, far from it. My recent very minor and well presented suggestion was dismissed out of hand. But I am part of this community, I have had a lot of help from the community (on pascal issues) and I like to think I have helped a few other people (again, on Pascal issues).
You choice is to -
- stick to Pascal issues, take help when its offered, develop your skills, apply them and perhaps help others.
- Try and change the nature of the forum, if you really think you must. But take people with you, put up a proposal, appeal to peoples self interests.
If you decide on the latter, I suggest you look through this thread to see the process that happened to establish a (language specific) Board, its not impossible.
https://forum.lazarus.freepascal.org/index.php/topic,54829.0.html - may be a model ? Would be nice if content did not appear in (compliant) search engines, interested people could opt in, the rest don't need to worry about dilution of pascal content.
Davo