I have a similar case.
I'm developing a simple inventory utility. Currently only 4 forms, the executable file size has reached 13,7 MB

. I think it's normal, because I use a lot of visual controls and self made units.
My suggestion is: try using
strip.exe to make it slim. But only if you ready to release it, because the debug information will be strip off. I'm happy with the result:
1.85 MB (before was 13,7!)

My easy step to make it fat loss:
- Copy the strip.exe from C:\lazarus\fpc\2.2.2\bin\i386-win32
- Paste it to your project folder
- Using Command Prompt, type: strip YourProject.exe
- And be happy with the result.