Simply install Lazarus as "yourself". There's plenty about this in the Wiki etc., but here's what I do.
If working on a new machine, I D/L the FPC binaries and install as root in /usr/local. Then I recompile from scratch and make sure the binaries are in e.g. /usr/local/bin/fpc.d/3.2.2 with minimal files copied to /usr/local/bin... you don't need to do this but I like to have several different versions available.
Then as root create e.g. /usr/local/share/lazarus-stable, and chown it to yourself. Copy the Lazarus sources into that, and build as described. After that you have full control of what's done with that instance. You could, as an alternative, obviously put it somewhere in ~, just make sure that the binaries (lazarus, startlazarus, lazbuild) are on the path.
I emphasise that that's my personal modus operandi and there's almost certainly people to whom it's anathema. But it's done me well for 10+ years.
MarkMLl