I AM STILL USING 2.0.12
But you have established that version 2.0.12 does not do what you want. Its a released and therefore frozen product, its not going to change. You need to either use a version that might do what you want or do something different.
As you mentioned earlier, its not rocket science.
Davo
EDIT: Actually, on my system, its is there on even 2.0.10 (I don't have ~12 installed). I suggest you try rebuilding your 2.0.12 with the bigide option,
https://wiki.freepascal.org/Installing_Lazarus_on_Windows#Building_Lazarus clearly says -
That being said, Juha has said, again, pretty clearly, that this area of Lazarus will work better with trunk. I would believe him ...
I have made, perhaps, 20 releases of tomboy-ng using trunk Lazarus. I have NEVER got into trouble doing so.
Davo