Hi valdir.marcos,
Thank you for expressing your opinion on this matter. It is appreciated and respected.
In general, i do not disagree with what you wrote.
Educational systems are not what they used to be, i do not know personal circumstances, age or background and as far as i am concerned, nor does it matter to know.
What does matter imho is motivation/eagerness. That is something that can't be teached. You either have it or not.
Nobody is able to teach another person how to code. The only person capable of doing so, is the person him/her-self.
The best another person is able to do is guide, give a corrections here and there and/or steer someone into the right direction. That can mean different things for different personalities.
But, in case a person does not show any motivation, ignores given advise, and shows no interest in provided help whatsoever, then there comes a point when one has to draw a line. Someone that does not want to be helped, can't be helped. Not saying this is the case for TS perse. Thereby, i admit, my fuse is sometimes (too) short.
Although age helps in having a better understanding of yourself and the world around, it is not really a factor unless that card is played
I have seen the exact same behaviour expressed by people that really should know better and i also have seen 12-13 years that you can toss a book with mnemonics and who come back a month later showing their code that simply blows you away with ingenuity.
Just as yourself i have been blessed with very nice and capable persons that were around and were able to guide me when necessary. I also have been passing along what i've learned to others for as long as i can remember (and for those that want to hear it).
fwiw: adding up i spend more then 3 decades being sysop, admin and/or moderator on several different (support) boards, mostly related to software/hardware development and/or programming in general. Although not in any official capacity anymore, i still contribute. I won't bore you with my educational background as it is actually quite a mess simply because in my days there hardly were any relevant studies, so i had to make up for it later in life taking short studies. Nowadays, in my spare time, i teach elderly/retired people (well, a couple of years older then myself) how they can write/develop software and/or improve their already existing skills.