Now I'm confused

I've been using Lazarus since last August and believe that I've always used ZapfCalligra as the font in the Source Editor - until two days ago when the display changed dramatically. It was only upon noticing that the font had suddenly become 'Courier'

that I tried to re-select Zapf and discovered the wide-spaced issue.
I'm also having difficulty understanding the arguments about proportional fonts (by far the majority) and difficulty in dealing with tabs, indentation etc. .... ????
All Editors/WordProcessors handle this perfectly well.