What about using the Microsoft SQL Server 2014 free package?
My aim to make this as painless as possible for the user (and me!). I was hoping to just give the program (and perhaps a few dll's) on a stick have them run it without having to install or change anything on their machine. It really is a very simple look up and maybe update a record or 2 system. Is this naive?
Compare both below and see for yourself:
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Firebird is open source and it is neither artificially limited in sockets, nor in processor cores, nor in memory per instance, nor in max database size, nor in max instances.
It is free and prepared for scale for very small through very big.
http://www.firebirdsql.org/en/firebird-2-5-5/Release Name Size of download
November 18, 2015 Firebird-2.5.5.26952_0_Win32.exe 7 MB
November 18, 2015 Firebird-2.5.5.26952_0_x64.exe 10 MB
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https://www.microsoft.com/pt-br/download/details.aspx?id=42299Microsoft® SQL Server® 2014 Express
Versão: 12.0.2000.8 Data de publicação: 25/06/2014
Nome do arquivo: Tamanho do arquivo:
Express 32BIT WoW64\SQLEXPR32_x86_PTB.exe 164.5 MB
Express 32BIT\SQLEXPR_x86_PTB.exe 183.3 MB
Express 64BIT\SQLEXPR_x64_PTB.exe 215.7 MB
ExpressAdv 32BIT\SQLEXPRADV_x86_PTB.exe 1.1 GB
ExpressAdv 64BIT\SQLEXPRADV_x64_PTB.exe 1.2 GB
http://sqlknowledge.com/2014/04/sql-2014-express-edition-limitations/Posted on 03-04-2014
SQL 2014 Express edition is free and great head start for small applications or learning purposes. SQL 2014 express is available in 5 variants for more flexibility; its self explanatory names are given below. Each has nearly similar features and limitations except followings. Check the references for detailed list.
Express with Advanced Services (SQLEXPRADV) with features like : Reporting Services feature, Full-text and semantic search, Specification of language in query
SQL Server Management Studio Express (SQLManagementStudio)
Express with Tools (SQLEXPRWT)
Express (SQLEXPR)
LocalDB (SqlLocalDB) a very light weighted edition for development purposes.
before considering SQL 2014 express edition installation, you may want to check limitations:-
Database Engine, and Analysis Services: Limited to lesser of 1 Socket or 4 cores
Max Memory per instance: 1 GB
Max Database size: 10GB (data file size only)
Max instance per server: 50
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