Ah, you'll be using win32/win64 widgetset then, same as me. Right, I'll definitely check this out tonight...
FYI: You set the Widgetset for your project in Project Options. You set the Widgetset for Lazarus in Tools - Configure "Build Lazarus". I *think* the two are unrelated, haven't done much work switching between Widgetsets...
Update: I also think the string "i386-win32-win32/win64" is TargetCPU-Widgetset :-)