Looks nice, well no idea how to create a faster shadow..
BTW that is a 1px shadow isn't it? So instead of bluring just draw an antialiased rounded shape with alpha first and then draw the button.
With BGRASliceScaling the settings I've used for the image you provided are those:
Margins: 5, 5, 5, 5.
Repeat: Horizontal, Top, Bottom, Left, Right.
The min size of the bitmap can be 11x11 with 1 pixel for the fill (white)...
BTW You're using a vertical gradient: maybe you want to keep the current image height, and reduce the width to 11.