Thanks all, but I'm just not getting that "lightbulb flicking on above my head" moment

I refine my SQL queries fairly interactively in SQL Server Management Studio, and then cut-n-paste the working SQL into my code afterwards. I don't really see the need to have live data in the form at design time once I'm happy the query is correct. I've coped well enough without that, all this time!
As for speeding up development, I'm not seeing that either - once you have a solution that works for your needs you can make a general purpose routine out of it and use that all over.
Also, in my line of work it seems - unless I'm wrong - that data-aware controls are too simplistic for my needs. We don't use simple forms of the variety where you have buttons for Previous/Next, insert,delete etc. (which is usually what the examples show).
Everything we add to the database stays there, and if it's wrong then a correcting entry has to be made, but everything needs to be logged and audited.
Inserting data is likewise quite complex, with many tables being affected in the transaction, even auditing changes to the simple masterfiles. It really is safer to know exactly what's going on, rather than use tools that could be doing something else behind the scenes for all I know.
Plus, user interface work isn't the main activity, there are other things to be getting on with, the reporting requirements never seem to end - so it's not a huge gain to save a bit of time on the odd form here and there.
I realise people love to promote what works for them, and I'm glad you've got something you're happy with, but I'm just not sold on the idea... or is there some other massive advantage I haven't heard of yet?
I have a feeling that I'd have to start work at another company and be bombarded with good examples before I'd finally see any point changing my ways!
Cheers anyway

P.S. If Lazarus supports both ideologies, isn't that a good thing? Isn't it better to attract newcomers with the attitude of "Here it is, it's great, use it any way you like!" - ?
It is human nature to stick with what you know when you're happy with it, rather than scratching your head trying to understand a different method when you're not even sure it may be better.
I am open to being sold the idea, if you think you can convince me (and everything on a forum may be useful to many others later), so please don't think you're wasting your time - I enjoy the discussion when I suspect that I may be wrong about something but I just haven't been persuaded yet!
Thanks