I've taken the liberty of attaching the whole project so you can see the the problem, its just a single form with a single grid. (a mysql dump is included)
Please don't misunderstand I'm not demanding you fix my project, rather I have created (and recreated a number of times) this project so I can understand DBGrid better, it is my intention to create a tutorial but without complete understanding of this issue this isn't possible!
I think there are a great number of people find this issue troublesome and would greatly appreciate some kind of basic tutorial ...
really no .xz attachments ??