Describe me what do you exactly want to do? Just show the .sfw in a separate windows? Or you want it embedded in a form (a kinda frame??) with other controls around it?
I ask this, because if it can be in a separate window, then you could include the flash player with your software (as a separate file, or as a resource), or you can inculude the .exe variant of your .sfw again as external file, or as resource.
But if you want it in a frame, with other controls around it, then I don't know