The part I cannot get past is that if I open the form in Delphi, the Form Designer in the Delphi IDE scales everything properly. I do not need to tell it anything about the form, the scaling, or the resolution. It just works. When I open it in Lazarus, Lazarus is unable to figure out how to properly display the form in the Lazarus Form Designer. This seems like a huge deficiency.
Since I am new to Lazarus, I am willing to concede that I am doing something wrong in Lazarus, however, every suggestion that has been provided has proven ineffectual. There has to be a way to make the Lazarus Form Designer work just like the Delphi Form Designer. I cannot believe that what I am asking is impossible. Basically, if someone can provide the "check this" and "uncheck that" and "assign this or that property value" cookbook recipe, I would be greatly appreciative.