you said: "in the Online Packagemanager" - pls slowly for stupid.
Where can I find a TRichMemo package?
In lazarus click Package (in the menu) and choose Online Package Manager.
Type rich in the searchbar.
Now you will get the packages which support rtf.
Check RichMenu and press Install.
Let it download, compile and restart.
Now there is a TRichMemo under the Common Controls (at the end).
This one should be largely compatible with TRichEdit.