Was on Ubuntu/Debian for some years now.
Changed to Manjaro-Cinnamon and never looked back.
For Manjaro there are some community-driven flavours in "Minimal"-configuration.
And IIRC there was one such "minimal" for Ubuntu, too, but i would have to look it up at home (@work right now).
OH, and i agree with trev:
FreeBSD base-OS install is in about 5 minutes.
Depending if you want to use binaries or build your own packages from ports (poudriere recommended) it's another 1 hour (binaries) or days (ports) depending on the "power" your machine has.
Note: FreeBSD is very "picky" regarding WiFi-Adapters --> check Hardware-compatibility first if it's a Laptop
the most common Desktop/WM's are MATE, Awesome, i3wm
....but you asked for Linux, so......