ok, I had a look. This is a new problem. It appears your gdb crashes (you could check, at the time of that message, a "ps ax" should no longer show the gdb process).
I can see which command (as in "command send from the IDE to gdb") caused the crash.
The problem is that it is impossible to tell, if (and which) other commands would crash this gdb.
You can set the IDE to skip this one particular command.
Tools > Options
then Debugger > General
On that page is a property grid, and in it is an entry "DisableForcedBreakpoint". Set this to True.
Given the above problem, you may also have to play with "InternalStartBreak". Values to test are gdbsMain, gdbsEntry or gdbsMainAddr.
And maybe "disableLoadSymbolsForLibraries" => True (that is ok, as long as you do not write your own libraries)
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In the Project Options > Debugging
please also check (if yours are not English, look for the param at the end, e.g. "-Xs"
"Use external debug symbol file (-Xg)" => False/Off
"Strip symbols from executable (-Xs)" => False/Off
And in Project Options > "Compilation and Linking"
"Link Smart (-XX)" => False/Off
See here
https://wiki.lazarus.freepascal.org/Debugger_Setup#Project_Options(the picture is from an older Lazarus)
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If none of this helps, you will need a different gdb.
The IDE should work with any gdb since gdb 7.0 (sometimes even older ones).
However your gdb crashes, that is probably not so much a problem with that version (unless gdb 8.3.1 indeed has a regression), that may be a problem with the build (i.e., the libraries it was linked against, the compiler version used to build it, no idea)
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An alternative might be to install (menu packages > install packages) the package "LazDebuggerFp", which is part of the Lazarus installer (so no download needed).
You can then go to Tools > Options, and
- choose "fp debug (internal dwarf debugger)"
- the path to gdb, can be left empty
This is a new debugger, that does not need gdb. The version in 2.0.6 is still very basic, and has several glitches. But for basic breakpoint, stepping and watches it might just work for you.