(1) - Multiple grids in same TabControl
Many users do not understand the connection between the worksheet/workbook and the grid. Being used to TStringGrid they think that the data shown in the grid are part of the grid. This is not true here. The grid is just a visual container, all data, all formatting is stored in the invisible workbook/worksheet in the background. So, when you change anything in the grid it will be passed through to the worksheet transparently. Since you can visually work only in one grid it is perfectly logical to provide only a single grid; if you want to go to another sheet you click its tab in the TabControl and it will transparently load the associated worksheet into the grid, the contents and formats of the previously shown sheet are not lost because they are stored in the workbook. There is really no need for several grids inside the same TabControl.
If something is lost when changing worksheets in the Tabcontrol then it is a bug, and you should report it (with detailed instructions and a demo project to show the bug).
(2) - RowSelect - CellIndicator shows range of selected cells.
That's the way it should be. The cell indicator shows the coordinates of the focused cell and - in case of several selected cells - how many cells are selected. Since RowSelect is on the latter case is true. Please note that the focussed cells is not visually enhanced in case of RowSelect. Therefore I do not recommend this operation. The way to select a row by clicking on a row header like in the large Office applications is not implemented yet.
(2) - NumbersOnly in CellIndicator
This should not be there, it makes no sense. The reason why it is there is that the CellIndicator inherits from TEdit, it should inherited from TCustomEdit and should not publish those properties which do not apply to this special edit control. I'll fix that.
(3) - RowSelect and FrozenCols
That's the way it is... The "FrozenCols" are nothing else but custom-painted FixedCells of the TCustomGrid from which the WorksheetGrid inherits. Therefore, you cannot edit frozen cells (which is bad), and they cannot be selected (which is bad as wll). The latter is the reason why the RowSelect option leaves the FrozenCols unselected.
(4) - ColCount & FrozenCols
Please give details instructions what you are doing. It is working correctly for me.
(5) - Defective xls
This should not happen, of course. But, on the other hand, the internal structure of xls is quite complex, and much of the details has been revealed by reverse engineering, thus there is a good chance that it will happen, sorry. Try to remove everything which is not needed from this file and post it here so that I can have a look.
A try-except block will no help because it requires a known error situation, but your problem is an unknown error.