I don't know the answer to your question - but you will be able use the ActiveX Port, at least on Windows, when that's finished.
Oh wait, I do know one answer to your question :-) Use Delphi, create an ActiveX wrapper around the component, use the ActiveX wrapper in your Lazarus app :-) (and who knows, if you get the interface right, when the ActiveX port does get complete, you might not need that many changes...)
http://wiki.lazarus.freepascal.org/LazActiveXMind you, I don't know the practicalities of this. Been a *LONG* time since I created an ActiveX control in Delphi. At the time there were hurdles and hoops galore to run around, but that was back when ActiveX was still new...